Blindsided By His Betrayal: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity (Surviving Infidelity, Advice from a Marriage Thera)

2017 LONDON BOOK FEST-Honorable Mention 2017 BEST BOOK AWARDS FEST-Finalist Your husband cheated on you, and now you dont recognize yourself. You used to be so together, so trusting. Now youre falling apart and doing things you would have never even considered doing, such as: Obsessively checking your husbands email, text messaging, & social media accounts Freaking out if he is 10 minutes late (or if you text him and he doesnt reply right away) Feeling disgusted with yourself: youre too fat, too then, too old Wondering who is this guy that you married anyway. Was any of it real? After a rare happy moment with your husband, getting really, really angry and raging at him out of nowhere Youre scared. Angry. Obsessive. Devastated. One minute, you hope your marriage will make it. The next minute, you want to kill him. (And the other woman, too.) All of this makes you feel like you are losing it. Sometimes you worry that you are going crazy. You wonder if youll ever be the same again. You are NOT crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husbands betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience. This book will help you figure out what to do as you deal with these explosive emotions. Its important that you understand that your feelingserratic and unpredictable as they may beare normal. You need to understand why you feel the things you feel and what to do with those feelings. Dr. Caroline Madden, infidelity recovery expert and licensed marriage therapist describes: Posttraumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS) 7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire Horribly) Understand why you feel crazy 12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were The stupid things your husband says and why he says it The suggestions provided here will help you get through this difficult time, whether or not you stay in your marriage. It is geared towards helping you deal with your tumultuous emotions so that you can make sound decisions regarding next steps. Buy Blindsided By His Betrayal and feel better.