He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

Hes Just Not That Into Youbased on a popular episode of Sex and the Cityis tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesnt like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. Its the best relationship advice youll ever receive. For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Hes afraid to get hurt again. Maybe he doesnt want to ruin the friendship. Maybe hes intimidated by me. He just got out of a relationship. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say thatdespite good intentionsyoure wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although theyd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be, Hes just not that into you. Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, You're not the one. But their actions absolutely show how they feel. Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillos wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, Im in love with you and want to be with you. Hes Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every womans night table. It knows youre a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start figuring him out, consider the glorious thought that maybe, Hes just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.